The Soft Ground
Welcome to The Soft Ground. It’s a blog where you’ll find reflections, practices, and stories that honour the messy, beautiful, and often tender journey of being a mother but firstly a human.
Millennials & Gen Z, Motherhood, and the Beautiful Burden of Cycle-Breaking
Millennial mums are the first generation widely parenting while healing their own wounds. It is beautiful and heavy work. This blog explores the research on cycle-breaking and offers simple, body-based practices to ease the pressure, so you can choose presence over perfection and grow real connection with your little one.
The Soft Art of Letting Go - (Letting Go of Parenting Pressure and Finding Presence in Motherhood)
A heartfelt reflection on the pressure so many mothers feel to “get it right.” This piece explores how the self-improvement mindset and constant stream of parenting advice can leave our nervous systems overwhelmed and disconnected from our own intuition.
The Somatic Landscape of Breastfeeding and Weaning
Explore what happens in your body during and after breastfeeding from hormonal shifts in oxytocin and prolactin to the emotions of weaning. A gentle, somatic reflection to help mothers understand, normalise, and honour this transition.
Why You Need to Know How Hormones Shape Your Body, Emotions and Relationships
Your hormones shape more than your body, they shape how you feel, relate and care. From the sensitivity of adolescence to the deep bonding of breastfeeding and the inward pull of menopause, each shift changes your emotional landscape.
This is why you need to know. When we understand our hormonal rhythms through a somatic lens, we stop fighting our bodies and begin to listen. And in that listening, we find our way home to ourselves.
The Slow Unfolding: An Embodied Goodbye to Breastfeeding
A gentle, embodied reflection on breastfeeding, weaning, and motherhood, exploring cultural pressure to “get back to normal” and honouring every parent’s unique feeding journey through presence, feeling, and body wisdom.
When Parenting Turns Into Survival (“mess around and find out” parenting)
There’s a new kind of parenting trending — the “mess around and find out” approach. It’s sold as strength, as firm boundaries and tough love. But beneath the tone, you can feel something else. The tightness. The exhaustion. The quiet grief of parents who are stretched beyond capacity and just trying to survive the day. This isn’t bad parenting; it’s the sound of nervous systems crying out for rest and connection. Maybe what we need isn’t more control, but more compassion — for ourselves and for the children who are learning from the way we soften.
You Were Never Meant to Bounce Back
Many new mothers feel disconnected from who they were before birth. This gentle, somatic reflection explores how motherhood reshapes identity and why you were never meant to bounce back, but to become.
8 Things to Know About Me (and Motherhood)
I’m Lauren. Somatic and Eco Therapist, Meditation Teacher, and mum to spirited twin toddlers who keep me both grounded and slightly wild at the same time.
This isn’t a polished list of facts. It’s more like a conversation over coffee, a little bit real, a little bit reflective, with crumbs of sourdough between us and the sound of small feet in the background.
How Can I Be More Present With My Children?
Discover how to be more present with your children by working with your nervous system, noticing glimmers, and softening old patterns.
Numb, Flat, Exhausted: Motherhood Can Feel Heavy
Motherhood can sometimes feel flat, numb, or disconnected, a quiet exhaustion that goes beyond tiredness. This post explores dorsal shutdown and protective patterns, helping mothers understand why their body pulls away and how gentle, somatic practices can help them reconnect with presence and vitality.
The Hidden Heart of Anxiety in Motherhood - What Your Body Really Longs For
Feeling anxious as a mom? You’re not failing, your body is trying to keep you safe. Explore how anxiety shows up through your nervous system and protective patterns, and discover gentle ways to come back to your body, your breath, and presence.
How to Notice When You’ve Left Yourself in Motherhood…And Gently Come Back
Motherhood invites us into joy, love, exhaustion, and everything in between. But sometimes the weight of it all feels like too much, and without even realising it, we step away from the very feelings that make us human.
This stepping away or leaving our body has a name: impasse.
How to Support Your Nervous System After Birth (A Mother’s Guide)
Becoming a mother transforms not only your body, but also your nervous system. After birth, it’s common to feel wired-yet-tired, anxious, or disconnected from yourself, even while deeply in love with your baby. This guide shares gentle, realistic practices—like rest, nature, movement, connection, and self-compassion—to help you feel grounded and supported in early motherhood.
Not Perfect, Just Present - The Real Gift Our Kids Need From Us
Motherhood isn’t about getting it all right. It’s about showing up, even when it’s hard. Learn how presence shapes your children more than words, why we drift away into old patterns, and gentle ways to return home to yourself and your child.
Nature’s Role in Calming a Mother’s Overloaded Mind
Discover how nature supports a mother’s mental health and nervous system. Learn research-backed benefits and practical ways to connect with nature, even at home, to reduce stress and feel grounded.
What Matrescence Really Means - The Emotional & Physical Transition into Motherhood
Matrescence is the emotional, physical, and identity transformation into motherhood. Discover what it really means, why it’s as big as adolescence, and how to navigate it with compassion.
You’re Not Failing - What Parenting Advice Doesn’t Say About Mothers
Most parenting advice overlooks the mother’s lived experience such as her exhaustion, trauma, nervous system overwhelm, and social context. Discover why supporting you, as the mother first, creates more connected families.
Why Taking Care of Your Body and Nervous System is the Greatest Gift to Your Child
When mothers heal their own bodies and nervous systems, they create the safety and presence needed for their babies’ brain growth and emotional wellbeing. Discover why your healing matters deeply.
A Mother’s Guide To Understanding and Regulating Your Nervous System
Motherhood reshapes your nervous system in deep, powerful ways from sleep deprivation to emotional overwhelm. This article helps you understand your body’s signals, normalise dysregulation, and offers simple, embodied practices to come back to calm and connection.
Sleep Deprivation in Motherhood: How Exhaustion Affects Your Nervous System & Parenting
“Before I became a mother, I thought I understood tiredness. The kind that comes from late nights or busy work weeks. But the exhaustion of early motherhood lives in a completely different realm. Sleep loss in motherhood is not just ‘being tired’, it is a nervous system event.